1: There are two types of people in the world, David Brooks writes in his book How to Know A Person.

There are “Illuminators.”  Who possess “a persistent curiosity about other people,” David writes. “They shine the brightness of their care on people and make they feel bigger, deeper, respected, lit up.”

And then there are “Diminishers.”  “Who make other people feel small. Often, they are so involved with … continue reading