1: Ever experienced a sleepless night?

Ever lie in bed “contemplating the end of a relationship, a job transition, our physical health, or concerns about children and family members?”  Diane Button asks in her powerful book What Matters Most: Lessons the Dying Teach Us About Living.

The next morning, we typically get up and start the next day. When we stop to pick up our coffee, the barista … continue reading

1: Consider the following two questions:  

“Where did you get married?” vs. “How did you decide on the wedding venue?”

At first glance, the questions seem similar. But if our goal is to start a meaningful conversation, they are worlds apart.

“Where did you get married?” is an example of a “stop sign” question, Sahil Bloom writes in his book The 5 Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to Design … continue reading

1: News flash.  Life is hectic.

The problem? 

“It is easy to allow our relationship with our partner to sit on the back burner while we deal with the more pressing fires of day-to-day life,” Sahil Bloom writes in his book The 5 Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to Design Your Dream Life.

This week [here and here], we’ve been exploring some of Sahil’s ideas to … continue reading

1: Psychologist John Gottman can predict who will eventually get divorced a stunning 94 percent of the time.

In a pioneering 1992 study, John and his team interviewed fifty-two married couples.

They asked each couple “a variety of questions about how they met, why they decided to get married, and what changes their relationships had been through and observed them as they took part in a fifteen-minute discussion about a … continue reading

This week and next we are exploring Sahil Bloom’s concept of “Social Wealth” as outlined in his book The 5 Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to Design Your Dream Life.

Today we turn to a list of “Social Wealth Hacks I Wish I Knew at Twenty-Two” which Sahil put together with Arthur C. Brooks, social scientist, Harvard Business School professor, and number one New York Times bestselling … continue reading

1: Professor Gay Hendricks was mad.

He sat in his car at a stoplight, replaying in his head the latest rant from the dean of his program at the University of Colorado, he writes in The Genius Zone.

His counseling department “locked horns repeatedly with the dean, who didn’t like some of the nontraditional things we did in our program.”

“I had left the meeting steamed up and found … continue reading

1: Skip was complaining to his boss, Fred Kofman, that he wasn’t getting the service he needed.

Earlier in his career, Fred Kofman had cofounded Axialent, a consulting firm. Skip was the manager of the Sydney-based Asia Pacific subsidiary.

“The firm’s operations center was located in Buenos Aires,” Fred explains in his book The Meaning Revolution, “where we ran administration, finance, marketing, executive assistance, and materials production. It was … continue reading

1: The research is clear.  

“Social connection is the number one source of happiness, success, good health, and much of the sweetness of life,”  David Brooks writes in How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen.

Yesterday, we looked at how David has consciously decided to strike up conversations with strangers. We studied the different types of questions he asks.  

During these … continue reading

Nicholas Epley looked around the commuter train he was riding to his office at the University of Chicago.

“It was just headphones and screens,” Nicolas reflects in  David Brooks’s book How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen.

A thought occurred to Nicolas. “As a behavioral psychologist, he was well aware that social connection is the number one source of happiness, success, … continue reading

1: Getting better at getting better is what RiseWithDrew is all about.

Monday through Thursday, we explore ideas from authors, thought leaders, and exemplary organizations. On Friday, I share something about myself or what we are working on at PCI.

This week we’ve been exploring David Brooks‘s insights on grief as outlined in his book How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being … continue reading