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One of my clients said, on her deathbed, “This is so beautiful…and so warm. There is light, everywhere.” Lomi, age 76

1: “Please forgive me! Please forgive me!” Ruth exclaimed.

“She was sitting up with her eyes open wide,”  Diane Button writes in her powerful book What Matters Most: Lessons the Dying Teach Us About Living.

The seventy-year-old Ruth was experiencing severe distress and agitation. Diane, who serves as … continue reading

1: “Some Scandinavian canoeists succeeded in getting through all the rapids of Scandinavia.”

Charlie Munger, the longtime business partner of Warren Buffett and Vice Chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, was delivering a commencement address to the 2007 USC School of Law graduates.

“They thought they would continue their success by tackling the big whirlpools in northwest America,” he continued.

Things didn’t work out so well. “The death rate was … continue reading

1: Science defines identity as “a well-organized conception of the self, consisting of values and beliefs to which the individual is solidly committed.”

Our identity is based on two things. 

First, the story we tell ourselves about ourselves.

And second, the standards or commitments we hold for ourselves.

“Put simply, our identity as a person is what we’re most committed to,” Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy write in 10x Is continue reading